1.9 Sex And Sex Sessions

Sex when one or both partners are having rolling full body orgasms for hours on end is incredible – the sensations of touch and kissing, the exquisite feeling of being inside someone else or having someone else be inside you while your bodies are exploding with Pleasure, the emotion of experiencing this with someone else or even someone you’re in love with – it is a pinnacle of the human experience.

There are no hard and fast rules for sex with full body orgasms, but here are a few tips:

Be transparent with your partner that you have been having full body orgasms, and if you’re a man, that you have been putting sex toys up your bum and rather enjoying it – if you don’t tell them, it is very likely they will find out anyway and it could create a difficult situation
- Explain to them how full body orgasms work and the sensations you feel
- Encourage them to try it too and offer to teach them
Plan in advance
- Full body orgasm sessions are usually on the timescale of a few hours, so reserve the time together and plan to be tired the next morning
- Gentlemen – if you’re going to use a toy, make sure you’re prepped and clean (see Section 1.3 Toys For Boys)
  - Get any materials you need in advance, and make sure you have some food and drinks handy
  - Some personal favourites: chocolate, ice cream, fruit salad, boozy milkshakes, cocktails, rum
Make a private space where you can move around naked, play loud music, dance, make food and drinks, lie down to relax and to have sex, watch TV etc. – I prefer the lounge to the bedroom
- Change the lighting, the images on the TV and any else you can control to give the space the ambience you want (e.g. more intimate, more like a rave or any other effect)
- Make it your own private club where you can lose all your inhibitions and dance in pure ecstasy
Have a safe word
- It’s very easy to get carried away in the moment and confuse “don’t stop” with “stop” or vice versa – safe words eliminate confusion
Experiment and find what you love
- Positions and activities you may not have enjoyed previously may take on new dimensions of Pleasure when combined with full body orgasms (e.g. anal sex, nipple play, rimming, 69s etc.)
- Different types of music
- Different toys and cannabis strains
- Different types of porn
Turn the evening into an elaborate fantasy
Laugh and have fun together

It also helps to have a session kit and some supplies, so you have everything you need at hand:

Lube
Sheaths
Cannabis / drugs / poppers
Sex toys
- If electric, make sure they and their remote controls are charged
Lingerie / props
Kitchen towel / wet wipes
Towels (about the most massively useful thing a Hedonist can have)
Waterproof sex blanket
Sex cushions
Harness / sex swing

You can of course, have spectacularly decadent sex sessions on your own. And you should – it’s the ultimate self-indulgence and you deserve it. I’ll normally have one or two sessions a month on my own and one or two with my wife. She also has them on her own, but less often than I do. I like to call them “solo orgies”. They make us both very happy.

For the record, we both still masturbate and have sex as often as we always did. If anything, our “regular” sex lives have been better since we started having our “solo orgies” and “sex sessions”.

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