1.10 Pegging

Hello!

Yes, pegging – of course we have to go there! There’s something about the thought of being fucked by a woman with a strap on or fucking a man with a strap on, that makes some people very uncomfortable.

For others, this is what makes pegging incredibly hot.

My wife and I were in the “interesting, but probably not for us” camp until I started having full body orgasms and realised how good it would feel. We got over our remaining hesitancy quickly by telling ourselves that it would be no different than my wife using a sex toy on me, just instead of holding the toy with her hands, she’d be holding it in a harness and moving it with her hips.

If you’d like to try pegging, you’ll need the following things:

A harness
- There are many options – check reviews to make sure they’re stable enough for your needs – my wife has one that looks almost like lingerie and is very sexy, but isn’t as stable as others, but because we wanted to use it with a strapless strap-on it was stable enough
A strap-on dildo
- These can have either a flared base which goes through a hole in the harness and sit between the body and the harness, or a specially designed base which attaches to compatible harnesses directly
  - In my opinion, this style of dildo, made of soft dual-density high quality silicone feels nicest to be fucked with
- Or they can be the strapless style, which have a second end which is inserted in the vagina – these can be used without a harness, but are much more stable with one
  - These are less flexible and don’t feel as nice to be fucked with, but the vibration functions they often have are great for the woman, and the extra sense of connection to your partner is also nice
- If you like the look of a strap-on but it doesn’t have the vibration function you like, you can create similar effects by combining it with a wearable vibrating G-spot toy or a small clitoris vibrator designed for use behind a harness
- Ideally start with a short and narrow dildo, then work your way up to long and girthy if you feel you’d like more
  - Remember the saying “it’s not the size of the wave, it’s the motion of the ocean” though – it is especially true when pegging men who are experienced at having full body orgasms – they don’t need much stimulation to get them to go crazy!
  - Sometimes dildos can be too long and be uncomfortable when they hit the sigmoid bend at the end of the rectum too hard – if this happens, buy a depth-limiting ring which will stop the dildo going in as deep (they look like donuts made of silicone)
A warm-up toy or anal dilator, and extra lube
- It can be difficult to insert strap-on dildos initially, so use a warm-up toy or anal dilator on yourself first to open yourself up
Kitchen towel / wet wipes / sex blanket / sheaths
- Pegging is probably the messiest of all the anal techniques because it’s very vigorous, so make sure you stay clean and keep your furniture and sheets clean
- Using a sheath on the outside of the dildo is recommended so you can get rid of any poo on the outside of the dildo very quickly and easily
A sense of humour

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