1.7 Full Body Orgasm Advanced Techniques

After you’ve had your first full body orgasm(s), you should spend the next few weeks or even months practising what you’ve learned, focusing on initiating orgasms consistently, having multiple orgasms in the same session, and relaxing through orgasm climaxes to ride them for as long as you can.

If you’d like to add more variety to your orgasm sessions, you can create different experiences very easily by changing the following:

Toy
Position
- Lying on your back vs doggy style vs sitting on the toy vs standing vs dancing
Cannabis strain or method of ingestion
Music
- Music has a huge impact on orgasm sessions, and it is much more immersive and powerful when you’re stoned and euphoric from the orgasms, so experiment with as many different styles as possible, even stuff that you wouldn’t normally like
- Certain combinations of music, toy, cannabis and partner, if you let go completely and let the Pleasure take control, can make music feel like it has a physical form and it is making love to you, or can make you feel like you have actually become the music and it is controlling you, making you dance, make love and orgasm to its beat
- My favourite combinations for full body and energy orgasms are:
  - Electronic music in combination with a strong trippy sativa, dancing with an Aneros tempo inside or lying on my back with an NJoy pure wand inside me, hips dancing to the music
  - Classic romantic / sex music (e.g. Barry White, Marvin Gaye, Charles & Eddie etc.), in combination with a heavy indica, a prostate stimulator inside, and making sweet love with my wife (also having full body and energy orgasms)
Setting (room, lighting etc.)
Partner

There are also some specific techniques which can add even more variety to your orgasm sessions and increase your skills:

Visualising and controlling orgasms
- As the energy waves and muscular contractions move around your body, ask yourself the following questions:
  - What shape are they?
  - What colour are they?
  - Do they have a specific “feel”?
  - What are they doing?
  - If the energy morphs into an image, what does it look like and what is it doing?
  - Does the energy feel feminine or masculine?
- Then try to control the orgasms:
  - Can you make them change shape, colour or “feeling”?
  - Can you make them move to different parts of your body?
  - Can you make them change effect?
  - Can you change the images you’re visualising?
  - Can you make a feminine energy feel more masculine, or vice versa?
Relaxing and contracting during the orgasm climax
- As you gain experience, you’ll become more aware of how your muscles tense during orgasm climaxes
- If an orgasm climax is muscular spasm-heavy, try to relax all your muscles at once to break out of the climax
- If an orgasm climax is more relaxed, without strong muscular spasms, try to move the toy actively to create some additional energy waves
Focusing stoned feelings
- Many strains of cannabis are able to produce heavy-feeling energetic sensations in your body – with practice, you can focus these sensations on specific areas of your body and create Pleasure – this can be quite an effective technique to trigger a full body orgasm
- Firstly, try focusing them on your vagina, bum or penis
- Then try focusing them on other parts of your body – your nipples, your breasts, your forehead, the centre of your chest, your hands and your feet can all be very pleasurable and create new interesting effects
- You can also make this energy dynamic:
  - Visualise it pulling you downwards into the ground like a gravitational distortion
  - Visualise it pushing you off the ground
  - Visualise waves of it flowing around your body
  - Visualise it pulsing inside your vagina or bum, or around your penis, then moving in and out
Edging
- Using the same principles as edging in masturbation – when you’ve built a large Pleasure wave that has moved up your body and is about to reach the point of no return, try to stop it progressing upwards and maintain it where it is with mental focus (i.e. without any muscular contractions)
- Sometimes the energy wave will go back down to your pelvic region, sometimes it will disappear, sometimes you won’t be able to stop it moving upwards and you’ll have an orgasm; typically though, if you can maintain it where it is for a few minutes or more, it’ll start to feel different, and when you allow it to climax, it’ll have a different and normally stronger effect
- Also on the topic of edging, you can also try masturbating in the middle of a full body orgasm session and then edging the masturbation – it is also possible to edge a masturbation-driven orgasm and a full body orgasm at the same time
Breath holding
- Start by lying on your back and breathing deeply with your diaphragm
- As you feel the air expanding your lungs, then your stomach, visualise the energy that this brings with it into your body, then move that energy into your stomach
- After a few minutes of this, the energy should start to crackle around in your stomach, like static electricity in a cloud before it discharges as lightning – the longer you breathe deeply, the more powerful the effect
- When you want to discharge the energy you’ve built, take ten fast breaths, breathing in as deeply as possible then breathing out as quickly as possible, then take one final large breath and hold it
- After 10 seconds or so, your whole body will naturally start to contract – let it
- As you continue to hold your breath, the contraction will grow stronger, and will initiate a full body orgasm
  - Either continue to hold your breath until you are in the climax of an orgasm and you cannot hold it anymore
  - Or breathe and relax the contraction consciously before you reach the point of no return
- Please note that this is a very powerful technique which can cause some people to black out momentarily, either from holding their breath for too long or simply from the enormous amount of Pleasure it creates – don’t be alarmed if this happens – you’ll be fine, just take some extra time to “come back to reality”
- This technique works best in the middle of a full body orgasm session, but it is also effective at triggering the first orgasm in a session
Nipple orgasms
- Because nipples are highly erogenous areas, it is possible to train your body to associate nipple stimulation with full body orgasms, so that the orgasms are enhanced or even initiated by nipple stimulation – it doesn’t work for everyone (including me sadly!), but there are a lot of people that love the effects that nipple stimulation can bring to full body orgasms
- The method is analogous to learning how to have full body orgasms in that you need to focus on the very subtle pleasurable sensations created by stimulating a body part that you wouldn’t normally focus on, then learning to amplify the Pleasure into something much bigger
- Allow yourself 5-10 minutes per day to explore your nipples and build neural sensitivity – you can do this watching TV or lying in bed or anywhere else – the only rule is do not stimulate your clitoris or penis
  - Try stroking, pinching, rubbing, moving them around – with your fingers or maybe with something soft like a feather
  - If you can, use lube, oil or saliva to make the sensations more erotic
- Try to focus on any sensations in your pelvic floor, chest or upper back created by the nipple stimulation – they may start off as very subtle tingling, but over time, can turn into Pleasure – if you get these first sensations of Pleasure, you should be able to have a nipple orgasm and should start practising longer
- At a certain point in your practice, you’ll create enough Pleasure energy for it to start moving out of the area where it started (could be your chest, back or pelvic floor), into the rest of your body and up your spine – you know what to do from here…
- Cannabis and (manual) sex toys should accelerate this process
- If you’d like some additional help, there are several types of nipple stimulator available, even electronic ones, which could accelerate the learning process or allow you to stimulate your nipples hands-free while you’re mid-session
Hands-free ejaculation and hands-free clitoris orgasms
- The goal of this technique is to ejaculate without touching the penis or have a clitoris orgasm without touching it, whilst having a full body orgasm
- It’s easiest to start this after you’ve already had a few orgasms in a session, then start masturbating your clitoris or penis as normal
- When you get close to the point when you know you’re about to cum, stop masturbating with your hand and instead, masturbate your clitoris or penis from the inside by moving your toy with your pelvic floor muscles and visualise masturbating them from the outside with the sexual energy you’re creating
  - For men, ejaculation should feel like your cum is being pulled out of your balls and being pushed out by your muscles at the same time
  - For women, cumming should feel like the orgasm is being pushed in from the outside and pulled inwards by your muscles
  - If the sexual sensations you’ve generated dissipate when you stop masturbating, don’t worry, just start masturbating again and you’ll get to the same point again quickly
- As you get better at this technique, you’ll be able to stop masturbating earlier, or masturbate more gently; if you get really good, you may be able to ejaculate or have a hands-free clitoris orgasm without touching your penis or clitoris at all
- Another way of achieving these types of orgasms is by using active techniques that stimulate your vagina or prostate repetitively and vigorously (e.g. making a hands-free toy move in and out in a purposeful way, by fucking yourself with a dildo or by being fucked by someone else), and at the same time visualise masturbating your clitoris or penis from the outside with the sexual energy you’re creating
- Please note – some people will naturally have these types of orgasm as they’re learning to have full body orgasms
  - If you’re one of the lucky ones that experience this, and you’d like to have a “pure” full body orgasm without hands-free ejaculation / a clitoris orgasm, simply don’t think about your clitoris or penis in any way as you focus on building the Pleasure in your vagina or bum
  - Or, try a smaller toy that puts less pressure on your vagina walls or prostate

This list of practice techniques is not exhaustive – there are many other techniques on the internet forums for sex and prostate play, and in books on Neo-Tantra, various types of Yoga, Taoist sex and other methods. It’s also very worthwhile to experiment and create your own techniques – if you do, please tell other people about them!

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