3.8 Enhancing Techniques


Using an “enhancing technique” before or during soul orgasms can change or enhance their effect in quite substantial ways. They may sound simple, but they’re very effective and can be very powerful, especially if you are skilled at soul orgasms. For the maximum effect, think of them like ritual prayers or dedications – take them seriously and take as long as you need to do them. You can also combine two or more at the same time to provide different or stronger effects.

  • Devotion / Love
    • Think about a person or figure very purposefully before the session and say (either out loud or silently) something along the lines of “I devote this session to…” – they will get incorporated into the session as feelings, sensations and interactions
      • If the effect wears off in the middle of a session, then repeat the initial devotion
      • It also works before an orgasm in the middle of a session
    • Love works in the same way as devotion, except that you think about the love you feel for a person or figure
      • The stronger and purer the love you feel is, the stronger the effect – examples of very pure love might be what you feel for your children, your close relatives, your partner, your pets, a religious or spiritual figure, spirit guides etc.
    • Both of these techniques combine very well with intention: compassion
    • FYI – normally this technique will not feel sexual at all – it will be blissful, accompanied by deep feelings of love for the person or figure
    • If you devote the session to a person or figure, remember to thank them afterwards for everything they helped you with
  • Embodiment
    • Think about a person or figure very purposefully before the session and focus specifically on their qualities that you’d like to embody, then remember their qualities during the session and they’ll get incorporated as feelings, sensations and interactions – the most powerful embodiment sessions will cause you to identify completely as your chosen person or figure and personify their qualities
      • Examples of qualities include compassion, love, ability to create x, insight into x, sacrifice, humour, strength, skill, intelligence etc.
    • It’s also possible to embody the qualities of concepts such as elements (e.g. Earth, Water, Air, Fire etc.), forces of nature (e.g. Wind, Sun, Ice etc.), animals / plants or even nature Herself (Gaia)
    • Embodiment combines well with devotion / love and scenarios / visualisations
    • If you embody a person or figure during a session, remember to thank them afterwards for everything they helped you with
  • Scenarios / Visualisations
    • Create an elaborate scenario or visualisation in your mind, before or during a soul orgasm
    • Incorporate multiple techniques for a more elaborate effect
  • Intention
    • Similar to devotion / love, you set an intention before or during a session relating to emotions or thought processes you want to feel
      • E.g. “Please allow me to experience the true meaning of compassion”
    • They can also relate to specific things
      • E.g. “Please allow me to forgive x” or “Please give me some creative ideas on x”
    • In my experience, the most effective intentions are compassion, forgiveness, love, understanding and connection
  • Meditations (see Section 3.20 Meditation)

There are other enhancing techniques that are not included in The Guide, the most common of which are breathing, chanting / humming, and visualisation of spiritual and religious imagery. If you feel these would help you in any way, then incorporate them in your sessions…



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