3.5 Music And Setting

Entering Complete Unity requires concentration, and there are certain types of music that help with that, and other types that can make it more difficult.

The types of music that help are typically slow and are more vibrational rather than having a strong beat. Here are a few that have all worked well for me (all available on Spotify):

Gyuto Monks’ and the Gyuto Monks’ Tantric Choir chants
- Tibetan Chants for World Peace is highly recommended for your first Complete Unity session, but The Perfect Jewel: Sacred Chants of Tibet is also very effective, as are others
- If you like the Gyuto Monks’ chants, I recommend strongly that you read about the history of the choir, the way the monks are able to chant multiphonically, the messages that are contained in the chanting, and the Tantra that the monks perform mentally whilst chanting – they unite music, meditation, religion, history, science, and philosophy into something unique and incredibly powerful. Simply put, masterpieces – the closest thing to a genuine magic spell I’ve ever experienced.
Chants
- Om
  - This one is very easy to chant along with and the vibrations you create inside yourself feel amazing
- Om Mani Padme Hum
- Religious chants
  - Christian chants, in Latin, Aramaic, Greek or Arabic
  - Tibetan Buddhist chants (Lama Gyurme is recommended)Sufi chants in Arabic
  - Kabbalah chants in Hebrew
Schumann resonance music and binaural beats (plenty of playlists available)
- Look for tracks with a frequency specified in Hz
Drone music
- Tanpura drone
- Ambient drone
Tibetan Singing Bowls (plenty of playlists available)
- If you like how these sound, buy a real one and play it yourself – it’ll be much more immersive
Meditation music (plenty of playlists available)
Vibrational frequencies (plenty of playlists and frequencies available)

If you can, play the music extra loud so you feel the sound waves vibrating through you.

The types of music that make entering Complete Unity more difficult are those that have words and have a strong beat – i.e. normal music. The reason they make it more difficult is that they’re quite distracting, so if you’re struggling with holding your concentration, stick to the types of music above.

Normal music is great with all other types of soul orgasm though, and it feels amazing, as well as sounding it. Different types of music, chants, or sounds will control your orgasms in different ways, so try lots of different types, not just the ones you would listen to normally.

As for the setting, initially it’s definitely important for Complete Unity to be somewhere you can alternate between sitting and lying down, but as you build experience, you will gain flexibility on how to enter Complete Unity. The other states of Unity can be entered easily standing up, dancing, sitting, making love – however you like.

If you want a soul orgasm session to feel especially sacred or holy, it will make a difference if your setting feels that way – that means soft lighting, candles, incense, and potentially even an altar.

Incense is potent stuff, and can make a huge difference to the feel of soul orgasm sessions and the direction they take. I’ve had sessions in which just a brief scent of incense made it seem like the boundaries between dimensions had dissolved, and I was suddenly in the presence of the “beyond the self”, connected to love so powerful it could change worlds in a second. Even if you don’t like the smell of incense, it’s worth trying it to test its effect on your soul orgasm sessions.

Incense comes in lots of different types and scents – if you want a session to be feminine-oriented, pick a sweet smelling incense (Indian joss sticks are typically quite sweet smelling); if you want a session to be neutral or masculine-oriented, pick a less sweet or “woody” incense (Tibetan incense sticks are often like this, or pine resin incense).

A session described as “feminine-oriented” or “masculine-oriented”, means that the “beyond the self” you connect with feels feminine or masculine. For me, feminine-oriented sessions are typically higher energy and more sexual, with stronger feelings of love and joy, more dancing, and an overall feel of wild abandon – the pure essence of Hedonism. For me, masculine-oriented sessions are more cerebral and somehow more serious – they are always very pleasurable, often sexual but not always, and are generally less Hedonistic than feminine-oriented sessions. It may be different for you.

As potent as incense is in influencing sessions, other factors also play a role: music, lighting, cannabis type, sex toy, your energy, what’s on your mind, whether you masturbate or not, your partner, your partner’s energy and what’s on their mind, and many other things. If you want to be able to control whether a session is feminine-oriented or masculine-oriented, you’ll need to experiment to find out which factors influence this most strongly for you.

If you’re using any of the enhancing techniques which relate to a specific person, religious or spiritual figure, or belief (e.g. devotion / love or embodiment), an altar can help focus your intention, energy, and love – it could be something as simple as a photo or picture, or it could be something much more elaborate. What’s important is that it provides a physical focus for the feelings with which you want to enhance your soul orgasm session.

In addition to well-designed indoor spaces, a beautiful place outdoors can also enhance the sacred feel of a session, just please remember that there’s a chance you could be seen…

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