1.4 Toys For Girls

There is a huge variety of sex toys for women – the toys to look for when you’re learning to have a full body orgasm are the ones that stimulate the areas of concentrated nerve endings inside the vagina, but not the clitoris – a rabbit toy for example is not ideal, even with the clitoris vibrator switched off.

Most of the toys suitable for this are dildo-style toys, but there are some that are hands-free which are inserted into the vagina and can be manipulated just by the muscles in the vagina walls.

For those of you trying to have your first full body orgasm via the relaxation technique, the hands-free style of toy is recommended because they allow you to focus fully on the Pleasure occurring in your pelvic region, rather than having to think about moving the toy around with your hand or keeping it in exactly the right position.

Unfortunately, there are not very many hands-free toys, and only one that I know of which is manual and designed purely for full body orgasms – the Aneros Evi. Kegel strengtheners / toners, love balls, Ben Wa balls, love eggs and wearable G-spot toys are the next closest things, and there is enough variety in their shapes, sizes and weights that everyone should be able to find one that works for them. Many of these toys vibrate, and that’s a great function to have when you’re experienced with full body orgasms, but when learning the relaxation technique for the first time, it’s best to leave the vibrations off.

Most of the hands-free toys have a string or a tail to pull the toy out, and some (e.g. the Aneros Evi or the We-Vibe Jive) have an arm which loops round to the front of the vagina to make them secure and easy to remove. Hands-free toys without anything to remove them (e.g. undrilled yoni eggs), can be removed by muscular contractions or by hand, but it takes practice to be able to do this, so to avoid any unnecessary stress, these are not recommended for beginners.

For those of you trying to have your first full body orgasm via an active technique, both the hands-free style and the dildo style of toys will work. Google “best G-spot toys / vibrators / dildos” and choose one that you like the look of. One factor to consider with dildo-style toys is whether the toy can be used hands-free by attaching it to a surface (e.g. a dildo with a suction cup on the base) or by wedging it against a bed or pillow (e.g. an Njoy Pure Wand or a Le Wand Contour). These will allow you to lie on your back or your front and control the movement of the toy inside you with your hips – especially good when you really let go and allow the music to control the dancing of your hips.

Once you’re experienced at having full body orgasms, then you can use any toy you like. Even toys with clitoral stimulators are fine because your body will know how to amplify the Pleasure from your vagina into a full body orgasm.

While you should experiment with as many different types of sex toy as possible, please make sure that everything that you buy is made from body safe material (high quality silicone, plastic, glass or stainless steel). If not, do not buy it.

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